Changing

Change:

Verb# make different; cause a transformation,Alter,become different in essence; losing one's or its original nature,Become different in some particular way, without permanently losing one's or its former characteristics or essence,Lay aside, abandon, or leave for another,

Noun#An event that occurs when something passes from one state or phase to another

2 sets of definitions that provide an insight into this word...

Why is it the most feared word by many people-young and old alike? Why do people stop thinking the moment something changes?

People....

People change very quickly.
A relation can suddenly change its meaning overnight… be it a child growing into its teens or a parent entering their 50s…

People change.

You may have had a buddy who you thought would understand you throughout your life. That person does understand you, but in a different vein.

You may have had friends who you thought understood why you are so… now, they are gone…

You may have had a perfect Father-son relationship with your dad when you were a kid.

However, some years down the line, now... you detest him, though you hate to.

You had friends… Now they are nowhere near.

Someone you loved all your life... now you don’t.

Some one who you thought you loved… Now you don’t…

People…do change.

Why you ask….why do people change at the drop of the hat?

Then some stupid voice in your head says “Ask yourself why you have changed!”

You then try to find out what made you say that…

Then what follows is a beautiful cycle of pure confusion…

You think that someone changed because they had an indifferent attitude towards you. You then change your own behaviour towards that person. That person, on the other hand, thinks you have changed and that person changes their behaviour towards you.

This goes on and on…

So who is really at fault…? Me?

Half Yes, Half No….

You try telling people your point of views, and somehow you may put off so badly that it hurts your self belief.

During times when you never understood what was going on, no one came to tell you what was..That's when you learn stuff the hard way .

So even if You say,’I don’t care what u think’ people will have something to bite-back with…

See…noticed the change?

Think why…

If you are already pissed off, then don’t read… you’ve done more harm to yourself already.

People change…

Those people…plus a few more…

But those that matter…

And the few that almost did….

Wrenches the heart…. Takes away all life…

I don’t want you to know…

Coz the people who are a part of this are the same people who will never read this…

And the people who read this are people who don’t know me yet…

So, I have come to the conclusion- Change is inevitable...

No matter what you do, you must learn to deal with change...

Coz the world doesn't care if you missed the bus... it only cares about taunting when you do...

And if You do miss the bus...

Rent a new one!

God Bless.

"You say you wander your own land
But when I think about it
I don't see how you can
You're aching, you're breaking
And I can see the pain in your eyes
Says everybody's changing
And I don't know why

So little time
Try to understand that I'm
Trying to make a move just to stay in the game
I try to stay awake and remember my name
But everybody's changing
And I don't feel the same

You're gone from here
And soon you will disappear
Fading into beautiful light
Cause everybody's changing
And I don't feel right

So little time
Try to understand that I'm
Trying to make a move just to stay in the game
I try to stay awake and remember my name
But everybody's changing
And I don't feel the same

So little time
Try to understand that I'm
Trying to make a move just to stay in the game
I try to stay awake and remember my name
But everybody's changing
And I don't feel the same"

-"Everybody's Changing"/Keane